Dating
Thai boys (56) You’re not my type
Boys
who are not my type who contact me online, instead of ignoring them or telling
them I’m busy (see previous post), I now write “Sorry you are not my type” or in
Thai “ขอโทษ ไม่ใช่สเปค” kŏr tôht mâi châi
sà-bpàyk.
(สเปค สะ-เปก sà-bpàyk from English spec =
specification)
On
hornet, when someone who is not my type contacts me once, no reply means not
interested. But if he continues, I will write “Sorry you are not my type” or
“ขอโทษ ไม่ใช่สเปค” depending on which language we started
the chat.
And
when I ask for facepic or private pics and get to see them, but am not
interested, as well. (I used to completely disregard profiles
without meaningful pictures, but now I’m grasping at straws and if someone
contacts me, I will ask for pictures, there is a chance about 1:1000 that he is
my type.)
And
when chatting get to the point quickly and ask what he is looking for, and tell
him I’m looking for sex. This should go without saying on online dating, but the
number of boys who look for boyfriend and won’t engage in sex before marriage,
or who expect remuneration, is too high to leave it to luck.
“You
are not my type” is received in three different ways.
Most
just say goodbye:
Some
argue that they are
slim: http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/05/dating-thai-boys-39-youre-not-slim.html
Some
become offended (stitched together from screenshots, read from left top to right
bottom):
I
wrote about a similar issue before, where it dragged out too
long:
Dating
Thai boys (10) I’m not interested!
http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/07/dating-thai-boys-x-im-not-interested.html
Dating
Thai boys (14) I'm not interested (continued)
http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/09/dating-thai-boys-14-im-not-interested.html
At
that time, “you are not my type” came after meeting once or twice and wasting a
lot of time and energy, now I put it at the beginning of a
conversation.
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