Dating Thai boys (51) Types of
lies
People lie for various reasons.
Here a list of types of lies I have come across.
Material
advantage
The most common lie. Sick
buffalo, grandmother in hospital, and the like, all to get money for a purpose
that the giver probably would not approve of (alcohol, drugs, gambling, new
mobile phone).
Get
attention
I have one friend B and one
ex-friend Z who talk a lot, and not all of it is true.
B told me about gogo bars with
Cambodian boys in Prachinburi or Ubon Ratchathani, and claims to have been there
recently, but when I ask for details, he becomes scarce. But we are still
friends, I just have to filter what is true and what is his
imagination.
B told a Farang friend FF he
would bring a boy for sex for free, and he told the boy that he would get paid
for sex. I would have loved to be there when these two lies
clashed.
The other boy Z, details
here: http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/08/dating-thai-boys-42-z-is-back.htmlWe
still greet when we meet on the street, and I might even stop for a chat, but
will not go beyond that. End of 2016, I learnt that a Farang friend J spent some
time with Z (and then gave up for reasons similar to mine) and J said: “I
wouldn’t say Z lies, he just never speaks the truth!”.
Politeness/cover up/save
face
Thai will rarely tell you “I
don’t know”, but tell you whatever they think you want to hear instead, or what
is advantageous for them. E.g. when I ask for a certain boy in a gogo bar “He is
not in today, but will be tomorrow.”
Poorly
organized
Not keeping an appointment, and
not even cancelling it, can hardly be described as a lie, except for those cases
where the boy never had the intention to meet. But it fits in here, as what was
said does not represent reality.
Shared key to
room
One of the favorite excuses if a
gogo boy wants to turn long-time into short-time. But the fact of sharing a room
with fewer keys than inhabitants is true! I let a Thai friend stay in my room,
and before I gave him a copy of my key, we had to do some gymnastics so he can
get in while I’m in my room. And recently (Apr 2017), a boy who stayed with me
over night had to leave to give key to his friend, or wait for his friend to get
the key.
Wishful
thinking
Here sides are reversed and I
accused of lying by a boy Nam Mon (2015, Kawaii bar Pattaya) who understood “I
might go to see you when I come to Pattaya again” as “I will go to see you when
I come to Pattaya again.
Borrow
money
The borrower usually does not
have the means to return the money. One could argue if he has the
intention.
(This post is an advanced draft.
Published prematurely because it fits to theft.)
Copyright 2017
ChristianPFC
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